Goal Update: Month of August 2010

Wow, I have really fallen off the blogging program!  Starting my articling position back in July has kept me more busy that I would like.  That, combined with my businesses and trying to have a personal life is pretty taxing on the schedule.  That’s no excuse to ignore this project entirely though.  Since it would be sort of pointless to go back through every week since my last update, I thought I would bring you all up to speed in a single shot.  I’ll elaborate on some of these points in their own posting, but here is the broad update.

1. Get Engaged

It’s official…I’m engaged!  I proposed on August 26, 2010 to my beautiful girlfriend, and now fiancee.  I’ll post more details on this in a separate post…but we are very excited.

2. Get a Truck

Also done.  I sold my Mustang while the getting was good (it was just off warranty), but I sure loved that car.  It was a really fun car but the time was right.  I purchased a 2007 Chevrolet Colorado LS from a nice family and am looking forward to doing some custom modification.  I don’t think I will keep this baby too long, or maybe I’ll make it a utility vehicle and get something fun for the summer in the next year or so…but we shall see.  In the meantime, it’s already proved to be very handy.  More details to come in a separate posting.

3. Launch my Online Business

It seems this has changed directions a couple times, with my investor suddenly deciding he like one of my other ideas better and putting us back to square 1. He is still interested but regardless, I think I am going to start development and if comes on, then great.  I also have a meeting this week with another gentleman who wants to partner on an idea I have.  He will split the cost with me, act as the main sales generator, and I will handle site operations.  In short, things are progressing, but quite slowly for my tastes.

As for other progress, here are some more little updates:

Workout 4x per week - not doing very well on this one.  I’ve been lucky to fit in 1-2.  Need to improve this badly!
Talk to my Grandma and Grandpa once per month – On track.  The engagement gave me good reason for this.
See my other Grandma once per month – On track.
See my Mom every week - On track.
See my Dad every week – On track.
Do something romantic every week- On track.  Flowers this past week, engagement the one before. ha ha
Read One Book Per Month – Finished one in July, August was a challenge but I hope make it up this month.  Details to come in another post.

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Goal Update: Week of June 20, 2010

1. Launch My Online Business

It looks like I had a pretty productive week on the online business front.  I reached an agreement with my potential investor.  The end result is that he will receive a slightly higher stake than I would have liked, but we maintain control (60/40 split and managerial/operational control).  He also agreed to review the operation following the recovery of the intial investment and agree to some reasonable management fee (so our “sweat equity” will have a finish line and be comensated for later).    We will be signing the deal this week and I expect to commence programming soon.

I also had anoter partner come on for a different idea.  I know these updates are a little dry without more details on the concept, but I will share more when we get off the ground.   The deal on this one is to split the startup costs, he will handle all sales and I will handle the operation of the site.  From there, 25% of profits will be left in the business for re-investment and the remainder will be split as dividends.  I don’t think this idea has the highest potential, but it should fairly easy to get rolling.  More details as they develop.

2.  Do Something Romantic Every Week

We had a great week together.  My sweetheart finished her novel on Saturday, or at least the initial draft, which is awesome.  I am very proud of her and look forward to seeing her work through the editing and looking for a publisher.  If anyone out there knows any publishing agents, please drop me a line.  I really would like to help her accomplish this dream and the connection would be really appreciated.  So, what’s romantic about that?  Well I bought a couple champagne flutes and had them engraved with “Verbatim ac litteratum” and June 25, 2010.  The phrase is latin for “word for word, letter for letter”, which is how I feel when I read her work.  I want to take in every bit and I am sure her future readers will too.  After some champagne we headed out to have drinks and celebrate some more with my cousins.   

3. Raise $1 Million for Charity

I am really stuck on this.  I have yet to raise anything to speak of.  If anyone is out there, please have a look at my Giving Back category and let me know your thoughts on the best angle to approach.  I was contacted by a really cool group Save the Children and will be posting about that soon though, so at least that is some contribution.

General Weekly Checklist: 

See My Dad Every Week:  Yes, we had a great belated Father’s Day dinner and trip to the driving range.
See My Mom Every Week: Yes
Workout 4x Per Week: No, only ONCE!
Do Something Romantic Every Week: Yes

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Finding a Mentor: Your Personal Improvement Coach

As a part of my personal and business development plan, I would like to form a couple good mentor relationships.  In doing some research, I compiled some points that might be of use in looking for a mentor and how to form that connection.  Some of what I will discuss here is inspired by “The Power of Focus” by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen and Les Hewitt.  Among many other useful tips, they discuss the great relationships that will help drive your business and personal growth in Chapter 5.

1. What is a Mentor?

In the context of business, a mentor is someone who is just a little way farther down the path than you are now.  Someone who has made the mistakes, won the battles and cleared the hurdles that lie ahead of you.  And best of all, someone that is willing to share those experiences and make you journey a little smoother.  Think of him or her as your personal teacher in whatever area of their expertise/experience.

2. How to Find a Mentor

 Now the first question you might be asking yourself is, why would anyone that has done so well take the time, or even want to share their lessons with me?  Well, it is my experience that truly successfull people often have reached a point of security that they now derive satisfaction from helping others along the way.  That’s not to say every successful person will jump at the chance to be your mentor, but you might be surprised at who will. 

So, here are some tips for finding a mentor.

1.  What Area Are You Working On?

Think about what area of your life you would like to improve upon.  Ok, all of them, right?  Well, which one first?  Which one could you really use some coaching and guidance on?  Maybe it’s starting your own bakery, or breaking into writing, giving effective sales presentations, public relations, financial or investment planning…anything you want.

2. Make It Known That You Are Looking

We all have social networks, both online and off, and might be surprised how far reaching our “friends-of-friends” go.  Use your Facebook status, Twitter tweets, personal blog and just passing conversations to let those around you know who you are looking for.  I personally was recently connected to a lawyer in Edmonton who has a passion for business and really is just farther along than I am.  I found this gentleman by posting this message to my Facebook:  “Looking for a mentor.  Anyone know an entrepreneurial lawyer out there that would be willing to share some time?”  Within an hour I had a reply, and within three hours I had an appointment to meet my new mentor!  That was easy!

3. Brainstorm Specific Individuals

If you could learn from anyone, who would it be?  Think about who has excelled in your field, profession, career or industry.  Now start searching. You might find them on Facebook, their own web site, company web site, or just asking your contacts.    I have a great deal of respect for W. Brett Wilson, CEO of Prairie Merchant. I feel he has the entrepreurial passion that I do, but combines it very well with a giving nature, kind words and respectful conduct.  This is someone I would very much like to learn from in terms of balancing life and business, being a “good guy” in a business world that seems very cut-throat, and knowing what opportunities to jump on.  Who out there has succeeded in the given area you identified in Step 1 above?  What would you ask them or want to learn?

4. Give It A Shot!

Take a chance and pick up the phone.  I have tried emailing Mr. Wilson, and so far, no luck.  As someone who is on television and fairly high-profile, my messages are likely being stopped by a “gate keeping” assistant out there.  If email or other medium is the best you can find, make do, but I believe the best results will come from a sincere phone call.  You will be surprised how a little persistence can get you through.  When it does, be sincere, to the point, and accept their answer whatever it may be.  Begin by introducing yourself, and skip the small talk (they are busy enough, and you are calling to learn, not be their buddy).  Let them know that you are searching for a mentor and ask if they might be willing to spend just 10 or 20 minutes a month with you or on the phone to discuss your chosen area.  They will usually give you a “yes” or “no”, which you should politely accept and proceed accordingly.  Not so scary, right?  And if the answer is no, just try someone else and know that person just wasn’t meant to be your teacher.

Finding the right mentor can be a huge benefit and accelerator of your progress through your life’s journey.  So far, I have been fortunate enough to have one law/business mentor, and I look forward to finding another entrepreneurial mentor as well.  Mr. Wilson, if you’re out there, drop me a line! 

What areas of your life are you looking to find a mentor in?  Who might you be able to learn from?  Please share those in the comments, and who knows, maybe someone can put you in touch with that perfect person.

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Goal Update: Week of June 13, 2010

1. See My Grandmother Once a Month

I attended my Dad’s surprise retirement party this past Saturday.  What a great way to celebrate a truly inspiring career.  My Dad was a partner at PriceWaterhouseCoopers and to see his colleagues, clients and family come out to say “good job and good luck” was really special.  Luckily Grandma was in attendance as I don’t think she will be making it to my place anytime soon.  That is one busy lady!

2. Launch My Online Business

I had a meeting with my potential investor.  We seemed to be on different valuation wavelengths, but it looks like we should be able to come to an agreement.  The last point will be if we can negotiate a management fee following the recovery of his initial investment.  The trick is, his csah is a one time thing, whereas unpaid work could go on forever.  As long as he is ok with some compensation after recouping his money, I think we have a deal.  Fingers crossed.

3.  Do Something Romantic Every Week

Nothing to earth-shattering here.  My darling was sick most of the week, so the only romance was acting as the chief nurse.  I think I did alright.  Some massages, meals in bed and hugs go a long way.

4. Raise $1 Million for Charity

I haven’t had much luck with waiting for simple donations to roll in, so I might have to get more innovative.  I posted a note about a couple fundraising ideas I have and would love some feedback.

General Weekly Checklist: 

This will be a new addition to my weekly updates.  Just a simple yes, no or count on the basic goals.

See My Dad Every Week:  Yes
See My Mom Every Week: Yes
Workout 4x Per Week: No, only ONCE!
Do Something Romantic Every Week: Yes

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Ideas to Reach My Charity Goal: Input Needed

I have a couple new ideas for reaching my fundraising goals.  As you may know, I would like to raise $1 million for charity by March 4, 2011.  I have posted some donation links on my site here, but I think I need a better concept.  Here are some thoughts I have had and would love some feedback:

1.  Specific Fundraising Goals/Projects

I thought about contacting my selected charities and asking about their funding needs for a specific project.  For example, how much does Free the Children need to build a school in India?  Or WWF to save X acres of rain forest or animals of a given species?  Basically, maybe I would have more luck with a tangible target to present?  The scheme is still reliant on seeking donations…but maybe something people can get their minds around would be more compelling?

2. Participating in Fundraising Events/Challenges

We all see those fundraising events or challenges put on frequently by many different charities.  Maybe I can set out to participate in several of those, or even event challenges of my own.  I could collect donations toward those events, or in support of those I create for myself and keep a blog journal of the preparation and experiences.  For example, in my city there is a repel from a skyscraper to support Easter Seals, a sky dive to support breast cancer research, several runs/walks, and so on.  I’m up for anything, so would be glad to get involved in this and blog all about it.

Regardless of these, I will need donations, but I am hoping a more tangible target or interesting activities might help me leverage blog readers and social networks to generate donations.

Please let me know your thoughts as I am anxious to refine my plan and get started.

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11 Free Tools To Promote Your Blog

In the process of developing this blog I have been doing a lot of research on just how to go about generating traffic and gaining readers.  I mean, what’s the point of building a great blog, with interesting posts if no one reads it?  As I have scoured the web for ways to help drive traffic, I came across several tools that are worth checking out.

1. Join Blog Catalog

This site is a huge directory of blogs from all over the world, on every subject imaginable.  When you list your blog your postings will appear on BlogCatalog.com.   Your blog will be listed in your selected topic, with a thumbnail, description and opportunity for users to review, rate, follow and link to your blog.   Join some blog groups with similar bloggers and swap links, advice and so on.  So far, this has been a decent source of referral traffic to this site, and the more active I am the more I expect to see that improve.

2. List on Technorati

Technoratiis a search engine dedicated to blogs.  Although your blog may be listed without you taking any steps, actively listing your blog by “claiming” it on your account allows you to to link your profile to your blog.  This gives you an additional in-bound link and branding you and your blog. You are also able to add keywords (tags) and a description of your blog, making it easier to find in the Technorati directories.

3. Submit to Liquida

A blog search engine and directory, Liquida compiles blog postings and returns search results based on any user enter search phrase.  You can submit your blog here and will be review and listed if it meets their criteria.  Again, just another source of exposure and traffic.

4. Optimize Your Blog for Search Engines

Ok, this might have been a little higher on the list, but it just remembered it…cut me some slack, ok?  We can’t forget the all powerful Google and other search engines as sources of traffic.  The good news is, blogs are naturally well suited to getting listed, but there are some steps to take that will help you out.  First, if you are using WordPress, install the All in One SEO Pack plugin.  This will allow you to specify title, description and keyword tags for each of your postings and improve their listings.  Next, work on building links to your site.  The more in-bound links the better.  SEO is a huge subject unto itself, but it’s something to consider.  Remember to submit your site to Google, Bing and Yahoo as well.  They will likely find you eventually, but why not speed things up?

5. Join A Forum

I have found participating in forums to be both a great learning resource and traffic source.  I am a member of Bloggeries.com but there are others out there.  You can submit your blog for review and suggestions, post questions, or participate in any number of discussions.  I found some of my best followers to have come from forums.

6. Post On Other Blogs

Typically when you post a comment to another blog you are able to provide your own web address.  This not only provides a road back to your site, if your comment is of value readers and that site owner are likely to take an interest.  And hey…you know that blog is always looking for reader participation and getting involved just helps the blogosphere in general.

7. Join a Blog Carnival

What the heck is a blog carnival, right?  Basically, it is when one blog owner hosts a “carnival” on a given topic.  Bloggers who write an article on that topic submit their posting to the host, who posts a link to it on their carnival.  It is fairly simple and will build new links to your site and hopefully reach new readers interested in the topic of your posting.  Carnival provide the service of compiling related postings into one place for your readers, so with any luck those people will take an interest in your post and blog in general.  Check out Blog Carnival for available carnivals.

8. Submit Your Posts to Social Bookmarking Sites

Submitting your best posts to social bookmarking sites such as Digg, StumbleUpon, Reddit can be an easy way to quickly boost traffic to your blog. 

9. Let Your Readers Do It For You

On the subject of social bookmarking, you can’t overlook the power of social networking and referred traffic.  I would also recommend adding a sharing plugin such as AddToAny: Share/Bookmark/Email Button that will allow your readers to share your postings on their Facebook, Twitter, and social bookmarking accounts as well as bookmark or email a link to the posting. 

10. Use Your Own Social Network

Don’t forget to use your own Facebook and Twitter accounts to promote your posts.  You may already have hundreds of firends and/or followers that would take an interest of what you have to say.  You can make this a little easier on yourself by using Twitterfeed.com.  This will take your RSS feed and post your updates to Twitter, Facebook and other services without you haing to lift a finger.  Doesn’t get any easier than that!

11. Register as a Writer at Scribnia

Scribnia is part blog directory, part review site, and a great traffic source.  Designed to match readers with bloggers with particular interests, it uses reader reviews to create context ratings for writers.  You can add yourself as a blogger to the site, as well as any blogs that you write for, and invite your readers to review your writing.  You can drive highly targeted traffic looking for your specific type of content, as well as receive valuable feedback to improve your site in the future.

Well, I hope those few tips I have picked up in the process of trying to build my blog traffic are of use.  Let me know how they work for you, or if you have any ideas for free blog promotion below in the comments.

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Goal Update: Week of June 6, 2010

1. See or Call My Grandparents Every Month

I visited my Grandparents in Penticton, BC this weekend for their 65th Anniversary.  It came with a share of family drama among my aunts and uncles, but was well worth the trip.  I had some really good visits with those two very special people and am very proud to call them my grandparents.  Although their health isn’t what it once was, at 85 and 87 they are still very sharp and interesting to talk to.  I really hope I can see them more often, but the distance makes it difficult.  So, what did I learn on this trip?  That your partner in life should be your best friend.  That it is best to let things go and not get too upset, or as my grandmother put it, “it’s liable to cause a murder” after all these years.  They are really cool people…my 87 year old grandpa just got a laptop…and I hope all you out there are lucky enough to stay in touch with your relatives as well.

2.  See my Brother Every Three Months

My brother was able to make it out to the anniversay, so it was really great to spend some time with him.  The best news was that he has an interview with EA, the video game company, next week.  After having such a tough time finding work in his industry I really hope that comes through for him!

3. Read One Book Per Month

I finished “The Picture of Dorian Gray” by Oscar Wilde this week.  Take a look at my book review if you have a moment.  The next book I have chosen is “A Long Way Gone: Memoirs of a Boy Soldier” by Ishmael Beah.

Some other steps forward:

4. Take a Memory Course:  I have made my way through a few more lessons of “Quantum Memory Power” by Dominic O’Brien.  See my recommended products with Amazon on the lower right side or click below.
Quantum Memory Power: Learn to Improve Your Memory with the World Memory Champion!

5. Hire a Sales Person:  Our new web site is progressing and I hope to have it up this week.

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Read One Book Per Month: “The Picture of Dorian Gray” Book Review

Dorian Gray viewing his portrain

Dorian Gray viewing his portrait

Although I have read a few other books this year this is my first completion since setting my goal to read one book per month.  Ok, I was a little late on this one…but a few days hardly counts, right?  I just finished reading “The Picture of Dorian Gray” by Oscar Wilde.  I have been wanting to read some of the classics and picked this one up several months ago and finally got to reading it.  Wilde is typically known as a playwright but this, his only novel, is quite good.  It is full of social commentary, gender statements, and moral messages that are quite relevant despite the book being written over 100 years ago.

Plot Summary of ”The Picture of Dorian Gray”

The main characters, Dorian Gray, Sir Henry Wotton and Basil Hallward being introduced in the studio of Hallward, a painter.  The painter has developed a sort of infatuation with the striking beauty of young Dorian Gray and is completing a portrait that he feels is his best work to date.  Amidst the final stages of the painting, Lord Wotton engages in conversation with the two, and imparts much of his cynicism and seemingly shallows values as he can on the impressionable Gray.  Being somewhat indoctrinated with Wotton’s “beauty before all else” message, Gray wishes that the painting of his likeness would age in his place, so he might retain the looks that have won him so much favor.  This wish would become a great regret for Mr. Gray.

Over the coming chapters, Gray meets Sibyl Vane, a very young, and very poor Shakespearean actress.  Though Sibyl only knows him as ”Prince Charming” the two of them seem to madly in love and plan to run off together.  The girl’s mother seems all too happy to see her daughter off to someone above her station, despite not even having met the young man.  Sibyl’s brother however is much more protective, and in a chance meeting threatens Dorian not to hurt his sister, or else he will pay it back to him directly. 

Unfortunately, Dorian invites his friends along to what will be Sibyl’s last performance before leaving to be with him and her focus on her own love produces a dismal portrayal of her role as Juliet.  With his love of beauty, Dorian suddenly becomes disgusted with the girl and her poor performance and breaks her heart backstage that very night.  Tragically, the loss is too much for Sibyl to bear and we find out very shortly after she was found dead later that night, presumably by her own hand.  Dorian awakes the next morning regretting his actions against Sibyl but is informed of her recent end by Lord Wotton.  His despair is quickly averted by Wotton’s assurances that this was just a passing love and that beauty and pleasure should be his only pursuits.  This would be Dorian’s last love and over the next 18 years leads a hedonistic life guided by an unnamed novel given to him by Wotton.

Later in life, though not showing his age thanks to his wish for his portrait to bear the years and consequences of his actions, Dorian begins to realize that his life has not been of the quality it should have been.  Brought to a head by a visit from Basil, the painter, Dorian is shocked by the effects his life has had on the once beautiful painting.  In the process of unveiling it to Basil, Dorian comes to blame this on him, the originator of the work, and murders Basil in secret.  Using some extortionary threat against a former friend, he is able to cover up his act, and visits an opium den for relief from his guilt.  While there, by chance a whore refers to him as “Prince Charming” which is overheard by James Vane (Sibyl’s brother).  In a moment of irony, James is convinced not to kill Dorian by being asked to look at him in the light and assess whether the man who broke his sister’s heart 18 years ago could possibly appear so young.  Effectively saved by the very curse that lead him down this path, Dorian lives on.

After returning to London, Dorian becomes paranoid that James is stalking him, and perhaps rightfully so.  He believes he saw him outside his window and later, while out in the country, discovers it was James who was accidentally shot by hunters.  Believe he is safe, Dorian sets out to turn over a new leaf and live a better life, his first act being to spare a local girl the heartbreak of being in love with him.  Dorian hopes this new act of “mercy” will show in the portrait, a lessening of the horrible image it now bears.  Much to his dismay, the image is even worse, causing to doubt his own motives in the act.  Believing his only absolution would be public confession to his acts, including Basil’s murder, which he cannot bring himself to do, Dorian tries to destroy the reflection of his life, the painting.   In an rage, he stabs a knife into the painting, but is discovered in the locked room with the knife in his heart and the painting returned to it’s original form.  Dorian’s body is now withered and aged, and is only identified after examination.

Thoughts and Reflection

The book is quite good, and full of interesting thoughts on beauty, love, relationships and the consequences of one’s actions. Wotton spews anti-marriage, anti-female, and elitist remarks (see below), the qualities of art are commented on and the overriding theme of responsibility/influence is apparent.  Dorian is under the influence of Wotton from the beginning, then allowing the novel to sway his actions.  By ridding himself of the consequences of his actions, Dorian takes no responsibility and lives a life of moral abandon.  When he starts to become aware of the nature of the life he has lead, he lashes out, but still blaming anyone but himself.  Blaming Basil for painting what allowed him to be as he is, the knife for murdering Basil, the painting as the only consequence of his actions that can be erased.

To me, the message that lies within the story is that without consequences we do not learn and are not guided to the life we should lead.  Our mistakes teach us as much as our successes, and the ripples those mistakes have burn the lesson into our memories.  And should we try to destroy the traces of our actions, we really destroy ourselves.

Memorable Quotes from A Picture of Dorian Gray

  “The ugly and the stupid have the best of it in this world. They can sit at their ease and gape at the play.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“An artist should create beautiful things, but should put nothing of his own life into them.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. Resist it, and your soul grows sick with longing for the things it has forbidden to itself, with desire for what its monstrous laws have made monstrous and unlawful.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“You are a wonderful creation. You know more than you think you know, just as you know less than you want to know.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“I hope that Dorian Gray will make this woman his wife, passionately adore her for six months, and then suddenly become fascinated by someone else. He would be a wonderful study.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“There was purification in punishment. Not ‘Forgive us our sins,’ but ‘Smite us for our iniquities’ should be the prayer of a man to a most just God.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“ . . . there is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“One can always be kind to people about whom one cares nothing.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray
 
“The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. Resist it, and your soul grows sick with longing for the things it has forbidden to itself.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray
 
“The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray
“Nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray
“My dear boy, no woman is a genius. Women are a decorative sex. They never have anything to say, but they say it charmingly. Women represent the triumph of matter over mind, just as men represent the triumph of mind over morals.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray
“Men marry because they are tired; women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray
Please share your comments below…and if you have a recommendation for a future book of the month please let me know.   If you are interested in reading “The Picture of Dorian Gray” by Oscar Wilde please click the link below to order and support this blog.
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Goal Update: Week of May 30, 2010

Well, another week in the bag and it was a bit of an up and down process in the goal department.

1. Launch My Online Business

Definitely the biggest area of progress this week was in the online business arena.  I met with my potential investor, and received very positive feedback.  I believe that he will be contributing the funds to cover the development (i.e. design and programming costs), which paves the way to getting off the ground.  I should find out for sure this week.  In addition, I met with a possible sales person, and received a sample design for the site, which I really liked.  All in all, really good progress this week.  My one question I do have though is how much detail to disclose on this blog.  I have been considering sharing the concept and detailing every step of the way so people can learn from the process.  On the otherhand, that may be unwise to share so much detail before we get off the ground.  Anyone have any thoughts?  Please comment below.

2.  Workout 4x Per Week

This was a sheer disappointment.  I managed not to work out at all this week, other than a decent walk with my girlfriend and puppy.  I’m not sure that counts.

3. Do Something Romantic Every Week

This week was pretty good for quality time.  We managed to go see a movie, Sex and the City 2 on Telus Tuesdays at the theatre.  You can’t argue with getting free popcorn and a drink with your movie ticket.  Here is a link to the details, but you may have to see if it is valid in your area.  Not a bad cheap date idea.  Otherwise, we had a nice long walk on a sunny afternoon and made a couple good meals together.  These may not be casanova moments, but they were good for our relationship.

As I reviewed this I see I have not made too many leaps and bounds last week.  I will have to better this week!

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Cool Quotes & General Thoughts

I’ll keep adding to this posting over time with any cool/insprirational/though provoking quotes or excerpts I come across:

“Now if you are going to win any battle you have to do one thing. You have to make the mind run the body. Never let the body tell the mind what to do. The body will always give up. It is always tired in the morning, noon, and night. But the body is never tired if the mind is not tired.”

- George S. Patton, U.S. Army General, 1912 Olympian

Success seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don’t quit.

- Conrad Hilton

  “If you’re not making mistakes, then you’re not doing anything. I’m positive that a doer makes mistakes.”
- John Wooden

“It isn’t what you do, but how you do it.”
- John Wooden

“You can’t live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you.”
- John Wooden

“There is no passion to be found playing small – in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.” 
- Nelson Mandela

“Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.”
- Thomas A. Edison

“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.”
- Martin Luther King, Jr

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